{"id":698,"date":"2024-12-29T16:44:15","date_gmt":"2024-12-29T16:44:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/?p=698"},"modified":"2024-12-29T16:45:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T16:45:13","slug":"avoiding-societal-expectations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/2024\/12\/29\/avoiding-societal-expectations\/","title":{"rendered":"Avoiding societal expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"195\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=195%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Book cover of The Vegetarian\nby Han Kang, with roots and stems growing from a silhouette of a woman's profile. \n\" class=\"wp-image-699\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=195%2C300&amp;ssl=1 195w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=664%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 664w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=768%2C1185&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=996%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 996w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=1328%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1328w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?resize=624%2C962&amp;ssl=1 624w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?w=1556&amp;ssl=1 1556w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Vegetarian.jpg?w=1250&amp;ssl=1 1250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 195px) 100vw, 195px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/25489025-the-vegetarian\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/25489025-the-vegetarian\">The Vegetarian<\/a> by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/show\/4119155.Han_Kang\">Han Kang<\/a><br><br>My rating: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/7133475045\">5 of 5 stars<\/a><br><br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/show\/4119155.Han_Kang\">Han Kang<\/a>&#8216;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/25489025.The_Vegetarian\">The Vegetarian<\/a> focuses on Yeong-hye, who decides to become a vegetarian after a dream, although exactly why isn&#8217;t clear. Her story is told in three novellas, each from a different point of view, starting with her callous husband, then her obsessive brother-in-law, and finally her overworked, deeply troubled sister.<br><br>As the narrative progresses and Yeong-hye&#8217;s behavior becomes more puzzling, her reasoning doesn&#8217;t quite come into focus, but we gain a greater understanding of her motivation, even if she seems unable to articulate it herself. Each of the three narratives gradually deepens the disconnection, desperation, and sadness underlying the characters&#8217; interactions.<br><br>I don&#8217;t want to reveal more about the meager plot, as I feel it would ruin the experience of reading it. But this is a remarkable book about the tensions between societal expectations and an individual&#8217;s sense of agency. It&#8217;s an unsettling dissection of the isolation and disconnection plaguing South Korean society, somewhat similar to the work of contemporary Japanese authors like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/show\/8107495.Hiroko_Oyamada\">Hiroko Oyamada<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/show\/8816506.Sayaka_Murata\">Sayaka Murata<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Vegetarian by Han Kang My rating: 5 of 5 stars Han Kang&#8216;s The Vegetarian focuses on Yeong-hye, who decides to become a vegetarian after a dream, although exactly why isn&#8217;t clear. Her story is told in three novellas, each from a different point of view, starting with her callous husband, then her obsessive brother-in-law, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-reviews"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paRPpr-bg","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=698"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":701,"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions\/701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harrisonwein.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}